However, you do have to be committed. There are 9 basic emotional needs that need to be in balance. The key is to focus on which areas you may need to improve on. Categories are: 1.) Giving & Receiving Attention (family, friends, colleagues); 2.) Mind/Body Connection (rest, sleep, exercise, diet, fresh air); 3.) Safety & Security (job/home/relationship); 4.) Sense Of Community (clubs, associations, organizations); 5.) Challenge & Creativity (learning new skills, being creative); 6.) Intimacy (a loving partner, close friends); 7.) Sense Of Control (finances, emotions, relationship decision-making, long-term goals); 8.) Sense Of Status (clear roles at work, in a relationship, in a family or community, having a basis for positive self-esteem); 9.) Sense Of Meaning & Purpose (feeling that your plans for the future are worthwhile and you can achieve them). It’s essential to set goals and a course of action for each need. Quality sleep is also very important, as well as exercising regularly, a balanced and healthy diet, daily meditation, volunteering for a non-profit/charity, maintaining a clean and tidy home and being surrounded by supportive, positive people. But most importantly, do what you love!
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Catherine Patrick is a Holistic Life-Coach & Hypnotist who is a graduate of the Holistic Learning Center & Weiss Institute. She has a studio in Miami and facilitates workshops at The Standard & Soho Beach House; 786.277.9835; BigLoveBigLifeCoaching.com.
Having a hard time switching the pessimist light switch off? Common belief is that your thoughts create your reality, so feed your brain some food for thought and optimistic jargon. These reads are sure to cross you over from the dark side to the bright side.
Text by Carla Torres
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