This continual outward focus leads to burnout, and makes us feel like we’re not in control of our own lives. Every day I set aside some time to ask one simple question of myself: “What do I need?” Then, and this is the important part, I become proactive with whatever the answer is. I find balance comes naturally when I’m continually connected to my deeper needs and wants. Usually this leads to some pretty strange daily activities: from upside-down meditation to grueling workouts, booking mini-breaks to Asia and surprising strangers with compliments — no day is the same. Although it seems chaotic to some, my routine of listening (and acting) on my needs gives me the variety I need to stay balanced, energized and happy.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
› Benjamin Evans is a Success Coach dedicated to helping people get to where they want to be. He’s a tech entrepreneur who has traveled and lived all over the world, working from his global desk, with years of study on the topic of human dynamics; BenjaminEvans.com.
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